When problems hit, we like to fix them. There are many reasons we do this … some people don’t like the stress of an unsolved issue, some are trying to keep their jobs, others like to keep their boss happy, or some are trying to turn the focus away from themselves. Mostly though, we have this amazing natural ability to bring things back to the way they were. Living systems (of which we are one) strive to reach equilibrium. In times of stress we very quickly resort to restoring balance and making things the way they were before the stress came along. Understandable, but not highly effective.
When trying to deal with deep rooted problems, it is easy to focus on technical things that need fixing. I don’t mean technical in the IT/technology sense but rather problems which have a definite answer and can often be solved with experts. This simpler, more logical and easier problem to solve is simply a scapegoat, a cloud that takes our attention comfortably away from the real problem.
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